The Grand Essentials

In the next weeks, I will be posting, intermittently. {yes, because of health reasons and will catch you up on details when all is said and done} Thank you for the kind notes, cards and goodies. Real thank yous will be on the way at a later date.

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Photo: Matilda, Pa and Robi. Dallas Arboretum. Dec 8, 2019

The grand essentials of happiness are:

Something to do

Something to give

Something to love

and

Something to hope for.

Love you beyond the moon.

Me

Longest Night Moon

I bought this VOGUE pattern in 1999. Does that make it vintage?

I have not had much energy lately and sleep each afternoon….but all I can think about is making a full length skirt from this old pattern. So, I dragged Larry to a few fabric shops and I found this amazing wide whale corduroy to make the skirt out of.

Photo: Vintage pattern. I am making the skirt, NOT the top.

Over the next two weeks I have a few events to attend and need to be as comfortable as possible. I will wear this skirt with a black turtleneck and my Kate Spade Rhinestone necklace. { and Burberry accessories}

The skirt does not have side pockets but I am adding them. I am looking forward to filling the pockets with lip gloss, tissues and mints. It will be nice to go out over the holidays in my new casual/formal skirt. Hashtag:letsgetthisradiationoverwith.

I am reading a book about recovering my creative spirit. I try to be creative, in some way, every day….making a skirt counts, doesn’t it?

Have a perfectly creative day.

Love you beyond the moon that will be full on Dec, 12 at 12:12 am. It is called, The Longest Night Moon.

Me

The Best Weekend

This Monday morning is warm and gloomy. Laundry is swirling and Larry is in his office dealing with things. Work things.

Perhaps I did to much this weekend. I am tired and sore. I am waiting for the insurance company to approve my breast cancer treatments. To be honest, that alone is enough to make a person grumpy.

But we had the BEST weekend…..

On Saturday, The Family met for our traditional Pre-Christmas, Nutcracker outing. It was wonderful. At Lunch, I sat and looked around the table at my beautiful family. I felt amazingly blessed.

Photo: Lunch before the Nutcracker

After lunch, we headed over to the Opera House. Larry and I got stuck in traffic and some how, everyone beat us to the ballet.

Photo: At The Nutcracker. Larry, Lauren, Josh, Matilda, Jamison and Jared.

The ballet this year was wonderful. Look at the smiles.

After the ballet, we said bye to everyone but found Matilda posing in Downtown Dallas.

Photo: Matilda after the ballet. Dallas, Texas

We all said bye again and Larry took me to a little place I love. A sweet young couple we know, own a restaurant on Lower Greenville. I love the wings and pizza there, but most of all I love the energy. It was just what I needed.

We were tired, but…..guess what Sunday was? Larry’s birthday. We had plans to go to the Arboretum. But guess who wanted to surprise her Pa? Yes, Matilda! I must say she surprised him big time.

Photo; Larry and Grinchy Matilda

We were waiting for the gardens to open and while sitting there, a Grinchy Matilda ran up and surprised her Pa. It was priceless.

Photo: Matilda at the Arboretum

I was tired. Really tired. We went and had salads….and then home…. I went to bed. Larry baked cookies, using my mothers recipe and I then, made him a birthday dinner.

Photo: Mini Wellingtons, baked potato and grilled squash. Movie: Home For The Holidays with Holly Hunter and Charles Durning.

Larry had the best weekend ever. It was one for “The Books”… We hope that yours was special too.

Love you belyond the moon.

Me

Solace

Photo: Matilda At The Cottage

Why are some days so difficult? It is then, when we must retreat to our minds and find our good place.

The face above reminds me of what is good in the world. Children are amazing aren’t they? Looking at Matilda’s smile always makes me feel better.

I hope today, that your good place brings you joy and solace.

Love you beyond the moon.

Me

He Served Tea

The wild duck soars and then circles

Over my orchard.

The fruit has fallen, ripe and ready to pick.

I yearn for flowers that bend with the wind and rain.

In my mind, I write a play about TEA.

And the wind sighs amongst the pots and cauldrons.

~Tso Ssu~

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Photo: On Thanksgiving Day, Larry served me Tea.

Thanksgiving day this year was different, but wonderful. Larry cooked and served. He is my hero. I was 3 days out of surgery, not feeling very well and he took over. And look, he made butternut squash soup.

Photo: Heart shaped sandwiches

Tea, Champagne, heart shaped sandwiches….and for dessert…

Photo: Godiva Truffles

My favorite dessert of all, Godiva Truffles. {forgive the poor photography. I was a little loopy}

I am thankful for so very much this year….

Love you beyond the moon.

Me

Camelot

Photo: Plants in wine crate. Thank you Kathy and my wonderful Pittsburgh cousins.

The soundtrack from the play Camelot is playing while I work today.

Larry is away at meetings. It is the first time he has left me since surgery. The Cottage is extremely quiet.

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Photo: My Knitting

Knitting takes up much of my recuperating time. This project is for a dear one….not a Christmas gift. It is just an I love you gift.

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Photo: Last Friday, the family came over for lunch….it was memorable.

These holiday moments feel so special. Is it because I appreciate them more this year than ever before?

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Photo: Flowers from Rosemary and David

Yesterday, I exercised. It was only 2 miles but I felt awful and had a migraine along with other things. I took an Excedrin Migraine and darn, I was up all night.

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Photo: My daily devotionals

Each morning, I read my devotionals. Right now I have many questions. Not about my faith, but how I negotiate these days in the best way possible.

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Photo: Blooming Christmas Cactus

I must close for now. The mornings are my best time and I try to fill them with as many errands/projects as possible!

Enjoy this Tuesday, it is a beautiful day. { if you have never listened to Camelot…it might make you smile.}

Love you beyond the moon.

Me

The Day Before

Photo: By Larry Tolbert

The day before surgery, {last Sunday, 7 days ago!} Larry called me to the back door. This amazing creature was sitting on the fence looking at us. Well, ok, he was looking at the little birds drinking at the bird bath AND us.

Larry took this image and look at the claws. We live close enough to a lake to see river otters, heron, gulls, geese ducks, fox and other wild life. Our neighborhood is older, has character and I love what the environment brings to us.

I am at The Cottage and recovering. {it was difficult} I am thankful for today. So many of you have contacted me, wishing me well. I appreciate it more than you will ever know. I adore knowing that I am being thought of in the most wonderful way. My cup runneth over.

It is Cyber Monday, I think perhaps I will hop over to the Macy’s web site and see what they have for a certain someone’s birthday! {Larry’s day is next week!}

Have a happy day.

Love you beyond the moon.

Me

Temporary

Hello wonderful readers. I wanted to let you know that I am taking time off from The Blog. It is a temporary absence and as soon as I feel well, will be back.

I am leaving for surgery and treatment of breast cancer. I have been through this before and honestly do not remember how long it took me to feel better. I will take things one day at a time.

Please look me up on Instagram. Robin Tolbert or Pastelred is my name ( I am going to try to post a photo daily} . You can also email me at [email protected]

Thank you.

Love you BEYOND the moon.

Me

Team Believe Lives

One week in October, I was diagnosed with breast cancer for the second time in my life and a few days later, a tree fell into our house.

Because of these things, we postponed our trip to France to stay home, have the house fixed, have surgery and start cancer treatment.

I feel deflated. I could not go on blogging / journaling without sharing the things happening in our life.

Sharing this news is always difficult. It is 2019 and people still gossip about cancer. I dread so many things over the next months, so, please if there is a crazy post on Blog, forgive me and we can blame it on the meds.

TEAM BELIEVE LIVES

Love you beyond the pink ribbons.

Me

The Hole In The Roof

The hole in the roof is being fixed. It has been almost 4 weeks since the tree limb came through the roof into the house. The roofers are making noise and it is driving me crazy.

My granddaughter Matilda is home from school today with a cold. She face-timed with me for 45 min and taught me how to make “slime”……

Photo: Face-timing with Matilda.

Do you know about slime? Matilda makes it without a recipe or directions. I am in awe of her.

While visiting with Matilda this morning, she told me about a “short” movie that she watched last evening. She is recommending it to the readers of Robi’s Blog. The movie is called PURL. Just google Purl movie and Pixar will let you watch it for free. It is 8 min and 48 seconds. I just watched it and need to say, no spoilers here!

Photo: The roofers truck is backed up to the house.

There is so much banging around on the roof, I cannot think. BUT, the roof will be fixed and no more tarp! I keep thinking, It will be fixed. It will be fixed. It will be fixed.

I have had some emails from blog readers about our trip to France and why we postponed this year. People are so kind. Thank you so much for the positive thoughts and love coming our way. Thank you also, for asking about us and yes. We are fine. We will be fine.

Photo: Titled: Eiffel Towers on a dusty shelf. I guess I need to dust the house.

Larry and I always have our “Paris” November. It is going to be so different this year. Different but wonderful just the same. Oui? I have not had Thanksgiving with my daughters in years, because we are staying home, we will have the holiday together. This will be a good year.

Thank you everyone. All is well.

Love you BEYOND the moon.

Me