Happy Halloween!

Happy Halloween! I have always loved Halloween. It marks the beginning of Autumn for me and it is a time of whimsy and joyful moments As the middle of three daughters, I wore many hand me down costumes and even now, looking back as an adult I did not care. It was always so much fun.

In 2005, Larry was very busy with his work. Opening up the North Texas district was his job and starting an op-co for his company was always a number one goal.

I was also busy, teaching ART classes for the city and creating ART was my joy.

The first of October, 2005, I stared a new project. A costume for my pug dog and then, Libby became Pink Unicorn Pug. On October 13, 2005, I had a photo shoot with her at the local greenhouse and now, fifteen years later, Libby in that costume still makes me smile. The photo went viral as there are 1 .5 million hits on her pink unicorn video and the greeting cards using the photo are still being sold, even though my contract with the card company has run out.

Photo: Photo and costume By Robin PINK UNICORN PUG

Pink Unicorn Pug is my all time favorite costume. Libby loved it too. (Libby passed away in 2017)

I do not dress for Halloween any longer but I adore being part of celebrations, parties and Tricks and Treats.

Have a happy Halloween. Be safe and know that the spirit of The Pink Unicorn Pug is smiling on us all…..

Love you beyond the moon and stars.

Me

Oh, The Moments

Last evening, the Dallas Arboretum held a special event for members. It was a social distanced, trick or treat, dinner.

It was drizzly and 40 degrees outside and although the event was sold out, not many people were there. It was damp, cold and windy.

The gardens were EMPTY! It was wonderful. The Dallas Arboretum has one of the best Autumn displays in the country….and always so crowded that you cannot move. To be there alone, was a gift and so much fun. It was a perfect night to experience the pumpkins.

My glasses had fogged up and all above photos, taken on my big camera, were taken without my glasses on. (I don’t know why but I am proud of that)

Did you see a little zombie in a few of my photos? That is our favorite girl, Matilda. She had fun in the pumpkin village and she also trick or treated…..

…..and of course, I just enjoyed each and every moment.

Love you beyond the moon and stars.

Me

Dear Jacques Pepin and Aggie

Today, Macy’s is having a huge pop up sale online and bought Larry a new winter coat. The original price is $495 and I got it for $145. Shushhhhhh. it is a secret.

Larry is the most difficult person on my list to buy for. Talking about gifts……..

Last year my cousin in CA sent me the most wonderful book.

Photo: The perfect gift for foodies

She wanted me to keep up with Sunday Dinners in this amazing journal for menus. I had a hard time keeping up with dinners (Last year was difficult for me) and guess who took over the menu book? Larry did! If I had known how well he keeps up with the menus, I would have given him a copy of the book earlier. He takes photos and makes notes, and always says: Aggie! This book is perfection!

Photo: Larry writing in the menu book

His handwriting is nice and he is articulate about the Sunday meals. Much better than anything I recorded in the beginning of the book.

When Aggie gave me this book, I adored it. Truth be told, I love it even more now that Larry has taken charge. It is turning into quite a treasure. Thank you again Aggie. You are the best.

Have you started shopping for the holidays yet? There are great deals out there…and please try to enjoy the process. It feels daunting but it will be ok. I think.

Love you beyond the moon and stars.

Me

A Watercolor Evening

My Larry had been planning a picnic for last night. The plans had been in the “works” for a few weeks. He wanted to have a celebration of sorts. We did exactly that.

Yesterday all of my breast cancer tests came back clear. After being so anxious about it forever, I thought that I would be happier than I am. I am hugely relieved, of course. I am not happy though. It is probably because I am still so pissed off about last year, and I have not gotten over it.

Larry ordered food from one of our favorite restaurants and we headed to the Dallas Arboretum for dinner. The Arboretum was having music in the garden. In different gardens, there were different ARTists. We headed to the lake and settled in.

Our picnic dinner was from GAPCO PIZZA. (A Dallas tradition) We had a Caesar salad. veggie pizza, pizza poppers, garlic rolls and little chocolates. We drank Champagne and enjoyed a classical guitarist during dinner.

I kept thinking that Larry took a gamble, planning this amazing evening for us. What if my radiologist found something in my X rays again? Larry saw me frowning a few times and made me smile instead. Larry is kind of awesome like that. The night was lovely.

I had forgotten my good camera and only had my phone. Sorry about the photos.

Photo: Celebration at the Arboretum.

Photo: Sailboats were out on the lake last night. (like a watercolor painting)

It was a beautiful evening. People wore masks and social distanced. Twilight was my favorite because it made me feel like I was in a watercolor painting.

Larry’s celebration was perfection. I love him so much and I know that he is relieved today too.

Do you celebrate things too? How do you celebrate and do you include the people around you?

Love you beyond the moon and stars.

Me

October Book Club

I loved Orphan Train. Written by Christina Baker Kline and published in 2013. It has 278 pages.

I was told about this book by a good friend, who had been adopted. It gave me insight to a certain life that I have no idea about. I adore that in a book. Don’t you?

Our October book for the month is, ORPHAN TRAIN by Christina Baker Kline.

The synopsis reads….

Orphan Train is a historical fiction novel about the relationship between seventeen year-old Molly Ayer and ninety-one year-old Vivian Daly who, as the result of spending time together and sharing their experiences, form a bond, learn from each other, and change in significant ways.

Molly is a troubled foster child in Maine who is about to “age out” of the system (that is, she’s becoming too old for the system to continue accommodating). She was put into the system after her father died in a car accident and her mother turned to drugs. Molly, of Penobscot Indian descent, lives with spiteful Dina and timid Ralph, Dina keeping her around in order to keep receiving the government payments she receives for foster parenting. One day, Molly steals a book. As punishment, she is sentenced to perform fifty hours of community service. Molly’s boyfriend Jack comes up with a plan for filling those hours: Jack’s mother, Terry, is the housekeeper for elderly Vivian, who lives in a large and lonely house and whose attic needs cleaning. Seeing the situation as an opportunity for relatively light work, Molly agrees to clean out and organize the attic.

As the story of Molly’s relationship with Vivian develops in the present day, its events are paralleled with / echoed by the story of Vivian’s experiences in Depression-era Minnesota. That story begins with Vivian’s Irish family coming to New York through Ellis Island. While struggling to make ends meet, a fire kills everyone else in the family, leaving Vivian an orphan. As a result, Vivian is sent on an “orphan train” in the hope that somewhere, she will find a family to take her in. While on the train with several other orphans in similar circumstances, she meets an older boy, Dutchy. They develop a friendship and promise to find each other in the future. Vivian is eventually placed with the cruel Mrs. Byrne, who runs a clothing shop where Vivian makes her way sewing clothes. This situation comes to an end with the stock market crash of 1929 in which Mrs. Byrne and her husband lose their wealth. Vivian is next placed with the poor, filthy, and despicable Grote family. Mrs. Grote is a shut-in who hardly gets out of bed, and Mr. Grote is a do-nothing. Vivian’s time with the Grotes ends when Mr. Grote attempts to rape her. Mrs. Grote blames Vivian for the incident and kicks her out into the cold. Rescued by her teacher, Miss Larsen, Vivian is placed first with the kindly Mrs. Murphy, and finally with Mr. and Mrs. Nielsen, who own a general store and who allow Vivian to introduce several new innovations.

Several years later, Vivian has a chance reunion with Dutchy. Shortly after they fall in love and get married, Dutchy is drafted into World War II where he dies on the Pacific Front. Vivian has Dutchy’s baby but is too emotionally devastated to care for it, so she gives it up for adoption, keeping the story and its accompanying shame secret throughout the subsequent decades of her life. Meanwhile, Vivian marries Dutchy’s best friend from the army, Jim Daly, and makes a comfortable life for herself.

This narrative unfolds at the same time as the present day story develops, describing how Molly goes through some difficulties of her own, but at the same time develops a connection with Vivian that gives her support, refuge, and comfort. When she is kicked out of her foster home by the cruel Dina, Molly is taken in by Vivian, who eventually allows Molly to interview her as part of her work on an American history assignment for school. Molly also introduces Vivian to the Internet and encourages her to seek out her long-lost daughter. At the end of the novel, Vivian has an in-person encounter with that daughter, Sarah Dunnell, now sixty-nine and a musician, just like Dutchy. That encounter, the narrative suggests, would never have taken place if Vivian and Molly, initially wary of other people in general and of each other in particular, had not let down their defenses and been vulnerable with themselves and each other.

I did not read Orphan Train for a book club. It was just for me and I recommend it.

I rate this book…..

Four Daisies.

Till next book,

Robin

A Bloggers Touch

When I wake in the mornings, I always check my phone to see if there were any emergencies during the night. This morning, while waiting to hear the headline news, I looked at my Instagram. One of the people/companies/etc. that I follow, had a new post. I love when cat_in_france posts.

This mornings post was personal and it touched me so deeply that I asked Larry to read it, and he never “does” anything Instagram! But he did this morning.

Photo: Instagram at my work table

Cat Bude, is Cat In France. Her photos are wonderful, her ideas are creative and her posts are lovely. If you feel inclined and are on Instagram, please visit her account? Her posts are personal and humble. She is just what we need during these long days.

Cat, if you by chance should read this, please know that you have a fan in Plano, Texas. Please continue being honest, taking your amazing photos….and cooking.

Dear readers. Life as we have known it is changing. If we stay patient, things will become better. Maybe even better that we remember it. Till then, stay strong, smile often and know that this lonely blogger in Texas cares about you.

Love you beyond the moon and stars.

Me

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Perhaps All Four

Last week, when Matilda spent the weekend at The Cottage, she found this huge leaf. (Including stem it is about 18″ long)

I have kept it and think of her each time I look at it.

Photo: Matilda’s Leaf

This leaf makes me think of Matilda, Robert Frost and the poem, Nothing Gold Can Stay.

Nothing Gold Can Stay

by Robert Frost

Nature’s first green is gold,
Her hardest hue to hold.
Her early leaf’s a flower;
But only so an hour.
Then leaf subsides to leaf.
So Eden sank to grief,
So dawn goes down to day.
Nothing gold can stay.

What is this poem truly about? Nature? Friendship? Love? A Creative Spirit? Perhaps all four? Perhaps something else?

Love you beyond the moon and stars.

Me

Meet The Quilt Winner

Meet Amanda. Amanda is the winner of the Komen 2020 More Than Pink raffle quilt. Matilda, Larry and I delivered the quilt to Amanda on Saturday afternoon.

Amanda sent this photo to me on Saturday night, saying that she loved the quilt already.

I am sad this years quilt is delivered because I am not sure if I will ever make another. Time will tell.

I would like to thank everyone who donated to this years raffle. It means the world to me. EARLY DETECTION saves lives.

TEAM BELIEVE is alive and supports all of us touched by breast cancer.

Love you beyond the moon and stars.

Me

Last Year

Last year, with tears in my eyes, I wrote a blog about surviving 9/11. Link below….. (click on continue reading)

Today, I feel stunned. I try so hard to blog/journal about positive and truth but today I am empty. I hope that you forgive me and look for a hoppin’ update of the weekend on Monday?

Please have an awesome weekend.

You know I love all blog readers beyond the moon and stars.

Me

Charming Dinner Guests

The past months have been so strange! Some of the things that Larry and I love so much have left our life. It is time to find ways to compensate, right?

Over the years, Larry and I have traveled to Pennsylvania often to visit friends and family. During our trips, we would almost always include a trip to Bucks County Playhouse.

I will never forget the first time that we went to a production there, (and not knowing exactly what to expect) Marvin Hamlisch was accompanying the actors. From that moment on, I was hooked.

A few weeks ago, Larry recieved an email from the playhouse. It was announcing a production for Sept 1, and it would be a production online. We bought tickets and planned the evening.

The play/reading that we saw was DEAR LIAR. Staring Marcia Mason and Brian Cox.

It was wonderful! I planned dinner around the reading. Larry and I had the best evening.

Photo: Picked up dinner at Blue Goose
Photo: Dinner and a play.

We watched the reading on my laptop, in my studio. Dinner was Mexican and our dinner guests were charming.

Photo: Brian Cox and Marcia Mason

We loved every moment of this experience. I felt like Marcia Mason and Brian Cox were doing this just for us. They are amazing…..

Are you familiar with this play? George Bernard Shaw and Mrs Patricia Campbell……enough said. Look it up. It is wonderful, romantic and if you are a letter writer like me, you will understand the importance of real mail.

Be happy today.

Love you beyond the moon.

Me