Yesterday, I was trying to straightening things up a bit and it occurred to me…maybe it is time to throw Libby’s pug dog bed away? It is still in the same spot where she slept, by the window in my work room. She could keep on eye out the window for visitors, she had toys around her if she got a burst of energy and she was near me. That is the most wonderful part. She always stayed close to me.
Maybe it is time? But, I am afraid that if I throw it away, I would regret it.
I am still missing my girl very much. Maybe it is not quite time yet.
When you lost a beloved pet, what was your experience?
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Me
Hey Robin! My heart still goes out to you with the loss of Ms. Libby. I saw a ‘craft’ where you can put a beloved pet’s collar around a planter, as a keepsake. Perhaps you could do that, or use something else of hers, and that would bring a smile to your face when you see it? Our pets are so much a part of our lives that I don’t believe we ever truly get over the loss, it just becomes easier with time. You hang on to her bed as long as you need to and remember all the love she gave you in her time here!
Robin: I still miss Ajax every single day. We talk about her so often. I wish I had one more day to rub her pink felted belly, which was her “spot” and to hold her and love on her even though she did not like to cuddle.
I made a scrap book (and no, I am not a scrap booker normally) and I put pictures and so many memories. One thing I did that I wish I hadn’t was I added her favorite toy, a bug-eyed alligator that she always dug out of her toy box when she wanted us to play. I cut up “Allie” and just put her head in the scrap book. Once I did it, I was so sorry.
So, long story, but I’d like to suggest you don’t get rid of Libby’s bed. It is a sweet and sad reminder of her and it is OK to leave it there forever.
with love, Bobbie
Amy, I would LOVE to make that planter! Thank you so much for thinking of me. Do you have a link for the craft? Thank you so much. XOX
Bobbie, You are amazing to share that story with me. I remember ALI…and I miss Ajax so much. You and Bill shared her with us and I will be forever grateful. Hug Bill for us. We send love. XOX