Preparing….

As I prepare for 2018, I reflect on this past year.

It was great and awful

and  is ending on a funky note.

photo: I bring a leaf home from France each year. This year, I brought two.

So much kindness has been shown to Larry and I this year,

it takes my breath away.

I have ALWAYS said:

People treat you the way they feel about you.

Thank you for that.

You know who you are, who have touched our hearts

We are better people for knowing you.

As I think about this….

to the people who have been

rude, snide, argumentative and  disrespectful.

I forgive you.

I am sorry that you have such a hard heart….

I really have nothing to say to you, sorry.

Ready for a confession?

I have been resisting these donuts for 24 hours.

Stand back….I am headed to the kitchen right now….

Love you for taking the time to read my words.

Me

Sweet Moments

photo: Matilda in Broken Bow, OK

On Christmas Eve, we all took a drive.

The winter country was beautiful to me.

Matilda  Loved it.

She  has a  spirit of kindness and gentle ways.

***

Yesterday while Larry worked,

I cooked,  did laundry and cleaned.

At his lunch hour we took a drive.

{it was kind of awesome}

Then we came home to his phone ringing off the hook.

{restaurant people are very busy this week each year}

But last night we celebrated.

photo: Holidays at Home. Prime rib, mashed potatoes, green beans

He opened the wine I gave him for his birthday.

A movie was on, but we chatted so much

that we did not watch it.

Then I opened my gifts from Santa.

photo: Santa’s gift. A scarf and a new pen!

It was a perfect evening.

Thank you Larry for being my ROCK.

Thank you Santa……you spoil me.

Love you.

Me

Torn Wrapping Paper

My Larry and  I went far away for Christmas.

It was beautiful.

And Santa remembered  me there,

even so far away.

I passed busy churches and wished I was inside.

I was surrounded by people and felt alone.

It was then I realized, that you cannot escape

why we celebrate Christmas.

We are home today.

Larry is at work on a big project.

Laundry is swirling

and

I am making a romantic Boxing Day dinner tonight.

Did you have a perfect Christmas?

Did you have a perfect Joyeux Noël ?

I hope and pray you did.

Love you beyond the torn wrapping paper

Me

Headfirst

I am feeling sentimental today

and I am not sure why.

The lights and colors of the season have

touched me in the most unusual way

and tears seem to always be at the surface.

Personally, I am glad that 2017 is almost over.

It was filled with bad and good.

2018 is the promise of renewal for me.

Photo: Jamison with Dallas skyline at her left shoulder

Yesterday we met Jami at the Arboretum.

It was our Christmas with her.

I have other photos from the day,

but this one is the one I loved best.

Past the lake and over her shoulder, you can see Dallas.

She chose this spot, excited at the view.

***

As we jump headfirst into this busy weekend,

I wish you happy,

blessed moments with the people you love best.

Please take a moment to listen to someone

who might be lonely or unheard.

Listening is a wonderful gift.

{please leave a message here if you need me to listen}

Much love to you.

Me

 

 

 

Almost Christmas

Is it almost Christmas? I am trying to feel better.

photos: I bring cooking magazines home when I travel. BEST ideas ever!

Today I am planning my next dinner party…..and resting.

 

While in France this year, a good friend gave me her recipe for vin chaud.

I have saved a few bottles….cleaned them

and they are waiting for the mulled wine.

This weekend, I will prepare it

and

Chef Valentine will post the recipe next week.

if it is a success of course

In the spirit of Vin Chaud,

I wish you health and happiness…and the recipe.

Love you beyond all of the empty wine bottles

I can get my hands on.

Me

 

Stinky

It has been a stinky day.

I had to postpone our dinner party

because Larry has to go out of town….

and

II think I caught  the flu bug Larry had over the weekend.

I am in bed, reading

Stinky days  like this

should be banned so close to Christmas.

Love you,

Me

This is the first book….Queenie is the second. XOX

PS: I am loving this book…

but be sure to read them in order

 

Chocolate For Your Soul

 

In Paris, this year,

our picnic day was dreary and drizzly.

But, the Champagne was perfection

and

our lunch extraordinary.

But, I LOVE the Champagne bottle.

photo: The PERFECT Champagne bottle

Did I say LOVE?

The winery, said the bottle is the same

as they used  100 years ago.

How awesome is THAT?

I asked my  Larry if I could borrow the bottle

for the holidays.

Then he will remove the label for his wine book

after the new year.

Look for a photo of the bottle

as I plan to use it at one of our parties.

***

This holiday, I seem

to be having a problem with expectations.

Not mine, but other peoples.

It is the time of year when people

expect so much, while forgetting

how awful they were to you just months ago.

One of the things cancer taught me  was,

never waste your time on people

who do not care enough about you

to be kind.

Being kind is  easy and it feels so good….

It is like chocolate for your soul.

Today I will find a candle for the awesome champagne bottle,

and do something kind for someone….

{and I know who!}

Please enjoy your day.

Love you BEYOND the moon

Me

The Weekend Before Christmas

Larry and I had a lovely weekend.

It was filled with all things good.

We saw THE GRINCH again! {my favorite}

{the Broadway Play}

The most awesome GRINCH in the world

 We have seen  The Grinch many times,

but this one was THE BEST!

{Or do I say that every time?}

Then we went to Pedro’s after the play.

A very good friend, Pedro has the BEST restaurant in Dallas.

It seems like,

 every  special event in my life,

I celebrate at Pedros….It is my tradition.

After my favorite lunch,

 we strolled down to  Elm Street Tattoo

Where  Nick tweaked my pink ribbon Tattoo.

My small soft ribbon is now

a strong comment on breast cancer and family.

It is on my wrist , crusty and sore

but  i LOVE it.

I will post pics after it is healed.

***

Christmas is one week away.

I am not sure how often I will be posting

but…….

You can always

leave a comment for me.

{A comment on this blog, not on Face Book.}

{smilie face}

Have a happy, wonderful day.

Please fill you day with all things inspirational and kind.

Love you!

Me

Dear Rosemary and David

PHOTO: Hugo the bonsai

Dear Rosemary and David NTG,

One year ago, you had a  Christmas”Fig  Bonsai” tree

sent to Larry and me.

{We love it so much!}

I immediately named him HUGO.

He was watered, fed and welcomed  to The Cottage.

In the past year,

he has doubled in size and puts out new growth often.

After this new year,

he will be transplanted into a new bonsai pot.

Thank you again for this lovely gift.

Hugo has been a constant reminder of  you, our wonderful friends,

Rosemary and David.

May this holiday season bring you

love and joy.

Love you.

Me

PS: the heart shaped rock in the soil

was found in Philadelphia.